As women, how do you feel about the number of men you’ve slept with? Do you consider yourself a slut? Do you keep a list to remind yourself that you might just have promiscuous habits? When you’re in your teens having sex seems to be labeled as just something to do. It’s nothing to sleep with Mitch on Monday, Sam on Tuesday, Jack on Wednesday and so on and so on. We don’t even think about it, we just do it. We wonder, why is it a guy can brag about the number of women he’s slept with and it won’t hurt his standing but for a woman it’s taboo.
Enter Alice J. – A 33 year old female who is very attractive who has never had a problem turning a man’s head. She has everything going for her. She has a man in her life that is loving, warm and caring and who wants to spend the rest of his life with her. Today Alice was on the top of the world. She’s planning her wedding for September. She thought that she had everything in place. Her doctor’s office left a message on her machine letting her know that it’s urgent that she come in. She’s thinking, what could it be? I’m not sick or anything and I just had my yearly checkup. But, I guess I’d better go in and put my mind at ease.
9:00 am Thursday, arriving at doctor’s office. After meeting with doctor, Alice is shaken, she doesn’t know what to do. She’s just found out that she has the HIV virus. How can this be? I’ve only been with my boyfriend for the past 2 years so how could I have aids. The doctor looks at her and says, you’ll have to tell him, he has to know. He will also have to be tested. Oh no, Alice felt a sick feeling come all over her. She just wanted to die. How could this be happening, I’m getting married in September. I’ve already sent out the invitations and Jeffery’s parents are flying in from Rome. Doctor, could there be a mistake, are you 100% sure that I’ve got the disease. Yes, the doctor replied and we’ve got to get everyone that you and your mate has come in contact with over the past 5 years.
You need to go home Alice and let Jeffery know that he needs to get tested also and we need a list of your sexual partners that you had in the past. Do you understand? Alice, replied, Yes, I understand. So she went home to face Jeffery. On the way home from the doctor’s office, she’s thinking, Dear God, how will I tell him. What will happen, will he leave me or will he want to work this out. Do we call off the wedding after sending out all those invitations? I just don’t know what to do. I’ve got to pull myself together and think. What do I do?
Tell Us: What should she do? She has wedding plans for September and her parents have put a ton of money into this event, so should she come clean? Would you hide the secret? Your comments are welcomed. Tune in tomorrow for Part 2 when Alice tells Jeffery. Until the next time. Keep Bloggin for me and while you’re at it, check out my blog at http://scottlnkdesign.com .
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